Should i (F24) be engaged to my bf (M29)
Over the weekend.. nakausap ko mom and aunts ng aking bf.. they were asking me if i’m ready for a salangguni (engagement) any time this year.. almost one year napod me in a relationship sa akong bf na muslim sad (i knooow bawal uyab2 sa muslim supposedly huhu) .. the wedding doesn’t have to be in 3 months, it can be in the next 2 years or until i finish medschool.. they just want us locked in a committed relationship with both parents consenting us to be together (they already gave us permission to be with each other but they want in an official? Way)
Is it too soon?? Orrr am i ready to take it to the next levelll???? As someone with daddy issues, can i handle it?? Meee being commited to a marriage prospect? I mean i am committed sa uyab ko man din.. but to this next chapter??? I? Who grew up in a weird family dynamic where i really don’t have an ideal husband coz my dad wasn’t one? Am i capable of making a family where the children feel safe and loved to the point that they don’t have to question every kindness and affection that comes their way?