Am I the asshole for not wanting to do meal preps for her?
(23f) my girl and me (27f) live together and this year she’s wanted to lose weight. I love her and her body she is plus size and her health is taking a toll. A lot of back problems, knee problems, heart palpitations / pain, and asthma. I’m really worried about her health issues and losing her prematurely it’s my biggest fear.
I meal prep for her once every two days and often cook separate meals for her if she’s not craving the meal prep. I’m vegan but still meal prep her meat.
She eats fast food and she’s trying to stop. We made a rule of only on weekends when we’re out and it didn’t work out. Then she’d make exceptions or excuses or forget her meal prep or if I was too tired to cook or meal prep.
I’ve brought up that it is a problem she’ll agree but will have attitude the past few days I’ve found fast food containers stashed away after she promised me she’s been doing better. I believe it could be developing into an addiction and I’m worried about her.
I’m also exhausted about the time and money I’m spending on meal preps that get wasted and the pushback from her I don’t know what to do.