AITA for kicking my ex out after he had smx with me while I was asleep
AITA I (F) broke up with my fiancé about 3 weeks ago, but due to financial/logistical reasons, we are still currently sharing an apartment (w our 2 kids). While we were together, we had an dynamic where he would sometimes wake me up for SX by touching me and removing my underwear. At the time, I told him I didn't mind when he did this, (as long as he didn't expect me to be on top) and it was consensual. However, we are now broken up. Last night, I went to bed. He waited for me to fall asleep, and I woke up to him touching me and pulling my underwear down. Because I was in shock and completely confused, I froze. I pretended to be asleep and didn't move. He kept going and ended up having sx with me while I stayed completely still. Afterward, he went to the bathroom. I felt incredibly conflicted and disgusted. My body had a physical reaction to the touch, and to cope in the moment, I tried to mentally dissociate by imagining it was someone else. Today, I texted him and told him I was disgusted, that he took advantage of me being asleep, and that he crossed a major boundary. He responded with a long text apologizing, but essentially blamed my body’s reactions. He said he got the impression it was consensual based on my "auditory response" (breathing heavy) and compared it to things we did when we were together. He said he would respect my boundaries now, and that he understands he needs to find a new place "in due time." I replied and told him that "in due time" doesn't work for me, and that because he violated my boundaries and my trust, he needs to pack his things and be moved out by this weekend. He currently has no car and says he has nowhere else to go. I am feeling a wave of guilt because I know his housing situation is terrible, but I no longer feel safe sleeping in my own home. AITA for forcing him to move out immediately?