I can tell you how to create your dream partner right now.
No bullshit, no endless techniques, let’s just get to the core of it.
I created my dream partner, get paid $100k a year after tax, and my life is great. Ok, but that doesn’t matter, that’s dualistic bullshit, it’s all junk projected out, but from where? Let’s get into that, into what actually matters.
Step 1: Realize what’s actually going on.
There is only You.
The present mirroring awareness is fundamentally complete. It’s just you, there is no other.
Consciousness is the only reality. What you call “other people,” “circumstances,” even “chance”… it’s all You pushed out. The world is not happening to you, like how in a dream world everything consists of you. You are God dreaming, you may say. Everything you experience and everyone you meet is a projection of your inner assumptions, it all goes back to you like a mirror/feedback loop.
Your assumptions create reality.
They project into the 3D.
So if you assume love is hard, people are inconsistent, or your ideal partner is rare… guess what keeps showing up?
Exactly.
YOU are NOT a binary force. You are not power-FUL, you ARE the power. Stop seeing yourself as a flashlight, YOU ARE THE SUN. You limit yourself, it’s you, it’s you, it’s always YOU.
Ok everyone reading this should already know all of that.
Step 2: Define your reality
Now that you know the outer world mirrors the inner state, you stop waiting and start choosing.
Grab a journal.
Write about your dream partner as if you’ve already met them. Not “I want…” or “I hope…” but as if it’s done.
“We met in the most natural way.”
“They’re exactly my type, but somehow even better.”
“They treat me with consistency, respect, and genuine affection.”
“Being with them feels easy, like it was always meant to happen.”
Get specific. Personality, energy, how they look at you, how they text you, how it feels to be with them.
You’re not fantasizin, DONT be in a needy state.
You are remembering what you ALREADY HAVE.
Step 3: Enter the state.
Don’t just write it you have to feel it.
What does it feel like to already have them?
Relief? Excitement? Calm certainty?
Sit in that.
Identity with it.
Live from it.
No you aren’t delusional, your inner state is realer than the 3D anyways, You are the realest, You are God.
You don’t “get” the relationship you become the version of you who already has it.
Step 4: Persist until it hardens into fact
The 3D is just a delayed reflection. It might look the same for a bit. That doesn’t mean it’s not working. Fix your shit mental diet.
Persist.
Keep journaling. Keep returning to the state fulfilled. Keep assuming .
No checking, no desperation, no “where are they?”
Because if you had them… you wouldn’t be asking that.
And eventually, inevitably!!!!! it shows up.
You’re NOT searching for your dream partner.
You’re remembering that they were always waiting on the other side of your assumption.