u/Henrico93

Denied for I30 and partner is overstayed visa. Denied due to insufficient evidence but even upon getting the NOID, after we submitted files to corroborate our initial statement we were criticized for not submitting them with the initial packet so seems our officer just was very critical about the packet (or at least that’s what our lawyer says).

Question is what will happen now?Is it highly likely that she will receive a notice to appear in front of a judge, and will she like be put in deportation proceedings—and how long after receiving the denial do people receive the letter informing them that they have to go before a judge? Do people automatically get a notice to appear after being denied if they overstayed?

Our lawyer suggested filing a new case instead of trying to reopen or appeal this one. He’s not the best at giving advice and honestly don’t think that he handled this case with care.

I know at this point it’s not much advice anyone can give just hoping to learn what next steps might be…

Long story short my wife has put up a for boundary or ultimatium with my girl “best friend”. For context we’ve been married a few months she never really cared for the fact that I had a lot of female friends. I’m a queer man so majority of my friends are girls. This particular friend she’s started calling my favorite person and number one girl (which really isn’t true when I’ve talked about the situation to other friends and family they’re confused why she thinks so strongly of the friendship).

Things heated up when my sister had a birthday party and my sister invited the friend and she stayed with my family. For context my family is one of those open door families lots of siblings cousin and everyone always has a + one or extra. My grandma tells everyone call her grandma type family, friends have gone out the country with us, and I’ve been friends with the girl since college. And she grew up in a family where parents don’t travel without each other so there’s a cultural difference too.

I can respect that it is uncomfortable, but the way she reacts is on a whole other level and accuses me of defending her when I’m really just trying to explain there’s no back door stuff going on, and it’s more about defending a bit of agency and not allowing toxic behaviors to persist. I have made concessions like I don’t talk to her on the phone as much, I don’t even send her as many TikTok’s or messages bc it feels like I’m doin something wrong now. She got mad at me for having her pinned (I have like 9pins and all different friends and family) so I removed her, and she was upset that i was making sure she was okay and got into town safely, and letting her know what the next steps for the function were for my sisters party

Things to a drastic leap when I was saying I didn’t want to have a birthday party bc of the way that she reacts towards that friend even being mentioned (she’s acted weird around other friends too and I haven’t really seen or hung out with my girls in a long time like years bc it feels to awkward or like I’m going to get in trouble even though they literally see me as their gay best friend)

Anyway she threw 2 remotes at my head bc she said that I could have a party with the friend and then one with her and that I could invite all my other friends to a party but not that specific one, and I said that didn’t even make sense and I wouldn’t exclude a friend from an important event when they haven’t don’t anything wrong.

I called my mom bc I remembered my sister was in the hospital (actual favorite person outside of my wife) and I guess she thought I was getting parents involved. I told her everything isn’t about her and she threw the remotes at my head one hit me and I started bleeding (not like gushing but yeah) this isn’t the first time things have gotten this bad over my friend or other friends or family really but this one really ignites her and it’s like I understand her being upset or uncomfortable but it’s not like any disrespectful has happened and I know it will be tense at my birthday party with all my friends and her feeling like a way or being moody is going to make me shut down so I’d rather not do anything at all.

Any advice or thoughts?