Can't stop thinking about her argh
Hello everyone, I hope you're all doing well!
i wanted to follow up on my two previous posts with a little update.
So, a quick recap: a little over a week ago, I went on my first date ever and it was so so soooo nice. The girl was lovely, we had a really good time together. Well, I had for sure, maybe she enjoyed it a bit less than I did!... but either way, I had a great time. Right after the date, I texted her, sent her a photo of us, and told her how much fun I'd had. She replied warmly, thanking me for the moment.
The problem is: two days after the date she had to fly back to her home country. Following some advice from people here, I texted her asking if she'd want to meet again before she left - she never read it. I followed up asking how her last day in the city went and whether her flight was okay. She read it this time, but never replied. That was over a week ago now, and honestly, it stings a little...
Like, look...I get it - she has her own life, she had a long journey home, and maybe replying to someone in another country just didn't feel like a priority. Maybe she forgot, maybe she just doesn't want to. I don't know! But I can't stop thinking about her, and it's frustrating :(
I thought about texting her again, but I don't want to come across as desperate or pathetic. Part of me thinks I should just let her go. I don't know if she'll ever come back here, and I'm actually leaving the country myself next week unexpectedly, so I'll be on a different continent anyway. But I just really liked her!!! She was funny, smart, and so easygoing... So... Perfect haha (obviously not, but damnnn) I felt good and comfortable around her.
I guess I just wanted to share my thoughts and maybe hear some advice. Deep down, I know I probably need to let this go. But at the same time, maybe my feelings are amplified because it was my first date ever. Maybe she's not as perfect as my mind is making her seem right now...
My fault for going out with someone who was about to leave 😂🤡