For reference, my daughter (11) has a "friend" in her class who has always been raised by her grandparents. Her dad is in prison, and her mom just recently passed away due to an OD. It's always been my daughter, this one child, and another little girl in a "friend group" that has always supported each other.
Recently, this one girl has started acting in a way that I cannot wrap my mind around. She has a TikTok and is posting videos in sexual nature, even calling her "boyfriend" DADDY in these videos. Grown men are commenting and reacting. It's sickening.
She walks around with hickies all over her neck, spends the night with her "boyfriend" because he has a sister their age. She has even answered facetimes from my daughter where her and her boyfriend are "doing things."
She's making fun of other kid's parents that have also passed away.
Most recently, she told my daughter that she went to spend the night at the other friend's house and the friend got in the shower with her and "made her scissor" and watch "nasty videos." Which I KNOW is not true because the friend had already told her mom weeks prior that this child had NASTY VIDEOS on her phone which resulted in the mom not letting this kid come over or her kid going to her house.
What concerns me most is the fact that the people raising her see the TikToks and know everything is happening and do absolutely nothing about it. The grandmother is a well known lady in the community (we live in a small town) and everybody is scared to go up against her. Why? I have no idea.
For the time being, I have told my daughter she is not allowed to go anywhere near these people and the people who are raising the "boyfriend" or his sister. Her phone is locked down, and I've told her to stay out of it.
BUT, I am having a hard time coming to terms with how this child is behaving because I KNOW this is a LEARNED behavior and it concerns me TERRIBLY. Some point down the line she has either had this done to her or has SEEN it. I have no idea how to help this kid. Do I call CPS? Do I send them the tiktoks? Do I call the police?? WHAT DO I DO??