u/Herarubies

Hi Everyone, my bf (ex) out of nowhere admitted that he cheated for past few weeks - meeting and sleeping with multiple girls. He confessed via text as he was getting eaten everyday by guilt and even sent me proofs of his disgusting behavior.

Reason because his “feelings changed”, he is also self aware that he is an a hole, told me he doesn’t want to hurt me anymore and I deserve better.

Caps are well known to be loyal, logical, and disciplined. These are the reasons why I dated him - I am a date to marry kind of person.

We were committed and happy but now he left me confused and just dropped me out of nowhere hurt.

He is also aware that during our almost a year relationship that I am kind and nurturing. And now we are in no contact for almost 2 months, his last message was he will not reply anymore for us to move forward.

I sent a final short message stating that I will let God decide for their judgements and I will not stoop low to expose him in public for his disgusting actions.

I am a Cancer Sun, Cap Rising, Gemini Moon, and now scared with Capricorn men.

I am currently having a dilemma if I should tell that girl about my ex.

Long story short, my ex admitted that he's been cheating with multiple girls and I have proofs.

Upon digging, I discovered that the girls in the pictures are escorts. And my ex showed some symptoms before of some kind of STD (based on his skin) wherein I only found out upon searching on google because the pics matched vs his condition which he dismissed before as an allergy when I asked.

Luckily I haven't had any sexual contact with him.

Overall, I found out the personal accounts of one of the girls including her listings on multiple websites offering escort services which my ex probably availed.

Should I send an anonymous warning including receipts to that girl or should I just let them do their thing and focus on myself, save my energy, as it will not matter as she does it for a living and knows the risk.