I am in a long-term relationship with my boyfriend, and I love him and feel the urge to protect him and help him grow. Over time, he has more and more discovered his submissive side, and it has been a great experience for us both. Today, I think of myself as his Dom, and he flourishes as a sub.
Whenever he is at my place (we live about 1h apart, and he visits often), we are in a consensual power exchange for the entire time. I will take responsibility to organize our days, provide structure for him, train him, and he will indulge in servitude and obedience. We both enjoy it and we both grow with it.
Now, he has to move out of his flat, and this has brought up the idea of him moving in with me. I am excited by the idea of having him close all the time, and to deepen our relationship. At the same time, I feel insecure about our roles. I am not sure I feel prepared for being a good, caring Dom 24/7, and how our relationship would develop. As much as I enjoy our dynamic, it's something different to have a sub come over (even though quite regularly) for some days, compared to living with him completely.