Jacob's ladder (or other genitalia) experiences?
TL:DR
People with a Jacob's ladder: how has this changed your sex life? do you regret it? or what's the best part of it?
People on the receiving end: what was your experience with it? would you say it's better than without? what was the best kind of male piercing you've experienced?
I'm sorry about the long read. I got highly curious and wanted to express my thought process herein.
Dear pierced people of Reddit. Recently my girlfriend told me about one of her smut books. In one of those books she described a scene where one of the male characters was described with having jewels engraved on the base of his penis. Those jewels were placed in a row from bottom to top (or the other way around, I can't exactly recall the details). at the time I thought nothing of it.
An acquaintance of mine used to be a prison guard. He told me quite a time ago about a phenomenon called 'pearling'. This is where prison inmate cut the shaft of their penises and placed pearls in those wounds for it to heal resulting in a certain kind of body modification. Gory stories always peaked my interest and I started reading about the phenomenon. I started doing research and the main reason those inmates did that was because of cultural reasons and because the 'pearling' is supposed to heighten the sexual pleasure of their partners. and suddenly there shone a dim light above my head. I got even more curious.
As I did my research, a few piercings genuinely peaked my interest, one in particular is the Jacob's ladder. Not the Frenum Jacob's ladder but an alternative, the Lorum Jacob's ladder? I have a very thin Frenulum and I'm a little scared about tearing that sweet, delicate piece of skin. I think I got a few times fairly close in the past. Thus the Lorum peaked my interest. (I'm the kind of person who needs to do research before doing such things.)
I had a long talk with my partner: Asked her if she had any experiences with penis-having partners, having any kind of piercings on their junior. She did not, but admitted that it always peaked her curiousity. she is a rather approachable and open person and has talked to people who had their genitalia pierced (and she has 1 herself) and told me that no one she talked to regret their decisions (including herself). I absolutely believe her but I got curious about more stories and experiences before making my verdict final.
So far I'm leaning towards getting them. Though I'm satisfied with my sex-life as is, I want to know everything about the impacts of these piercings, negative and positives, since I want to make a well-thought through decision. I see piercings (and tatts, have a few of them) as a form of art and always wanted one (or a few) but nothing never really peaked my interest, until now. I want you guys to know that my girlfriend is not forcing me into this decision. She brought the subject to light in a strange fascination (and because I asked about her smut. Big mistake btw. Fellas, never ask your partners about their vampire/werewolf/warlock-hybrid boyfriends. < jk, just a bit of banter) She never talked about it but that one instance. It's 100% my own interest.
If you have one, I'm interesting in hearing your stories. How has this affected your life? How has it healed? Did you regret it? How easy are they to take off?
Was there something you had wished to know before or after getting them?
If you experienced one? also tell me everything about it!