u/HispanicAtTheBistro

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UPDATE: 29 M4F Long Term Relationship

First post: https://www.reddit.com/r/r4rSA/comments/1v1unvc/29m4f_long_term_relationship/

Hi all, just wanted to make this post to reflect on what a wonderful experience it's been looking for love here. I chatted to many amazing women and got loads of compliments, even from men and women who were not interested in dating me!

I favoured one particular lady very early on, which was a bit scary because I was putting all my eggs in one basket, but it turned out wonderfully and we've been on plenty of dates since. I made things official two weekends ago and now cannot wait to see what the future holds for us.

If you've met some cool people on this subreddit, for dating or otherwise, feel free to share some feel-good stories in the comments. I hope this can help give some more hope and confidence to those who are too nervous to reach out, or those who are still searching.

Have a blessed Wednesday everyone, and may love and joy find you in abundance.

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u/HispanicAtTheBistro — 8 days ago
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Gauteng Musicians

Hi, I'm an intermediate level flamenco guitar player based in Midrand, and I'm mainly looking for other guitarists to jam with but really anyone that is interested in working with flamenco would be cool. If I could find someone to teach me Kwela guitar my life would be complete. All levels are welcome, we learn from each other and just because I know more than you today doesn't mean the same applies to tomorrow.

I'm willing to travel anywhere across PTA and North Joburg for regular sessions, otherwise if further we can schedule to have a long jam session once in a while

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u/HispanicAtTheBistro — 9 days ago

Centurion Musicians

Hi, I'm an intermediate level flamenco guitar player based in Midrand, and I'm mainly looking for other guitarists to jam with but really anyone that is interested in working with flamenco would be cool. If I could find someone to teach me Kwela guitar my life would be complete. All levels are welcome, we learn from each other and just because I know more than you today doesn't mean the same applies to tomorrow.

I'm willing to travel anywhere across PTA and North Joburg for regular sessions, otherwise if further we can schedule to have a long jam session once in a while

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u/HispanicAtTheBistro — 9 days ago
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29M4F Long Term Relationship

First things first, I'm actually 30 in a few weeks but let me enjoy the last of my twenties.

I'm generally easygoing and it takes a lot to make me stress, but that doesn't mean I'm unserious about life or a low effort type of person. I love making people smile and feel good about themselves, and I feel my friends have gotten enough of that from me to last a while so I need to find my special person before my whole friend group marries/adopts me collectively.

I'm somewhat average build with broad shoulders, like you can tell I used to work out and just haven't gotten back to it. It's in the works at the moment, I just can't decide between a combat sports gym or dancing classes. Light brown hair with shades of almost everything, and a neat darker beard. I'm not tall, standing at an average 178cm, but I haven't found that to be a problem attraction wise.

I'm a very curious soul and try to learn as much as I can about everything that catches my mind. I work as an accountant, but you would never guess because I don't talk about it much (there isn't much to discuss unless you are also an accountant to be fair). I play classical/flamenco guitar as my meditation and escape from everyday life, and in general music plays a big part in my life. I listen to any and all genres because I believe at least 10% of any given genre is objectively good music.

I love going out for a jol or braai as much as I love staying in and spending the day watching stuff and being comfy. I also highly value independence, so I'm hoping to meet someone who understands and respects that we both have our own identities and lives outside of the relationship.

I was raised Christian but it's a complicated relationship, so I'm open to any belief system as long as you're not a fanatic and shove it down people's throats. I think in English but my Afrikaans is pretty delicious.

No racial or cultural preferences, people are beautiful from all over.

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u/HispanicAtTheBistro — 3 months ago

LF Ranked Duo/Flex Silver-Plat | EUW

Hi! I'm a 29M from South Africa (GMT+2), looking mainly for ranked duos or more for flex but I am happy to play other modes, as well as other games and just chill and hangout if we vibe.

I hover around plat-emerald but I haven't played ranked in ages and now recently haven't played League in almost 2 months. Top main with more emphasis on tanks and utility but I want to improve my carry tops as well.

Bonus points if you're willing to do some VOD reviews and find coaching stuff for our roles and macro with me, but honestly as long as you're not toxic I don't mind.

Would prefer a jungle or mid main for best synergy with top but all are welcome to DM.

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u/HispanicAtTheBistro — 5 months ago