At my wits end
Hi all,
we recently bought a house together and I was excited for our next steps in life. Marriage. Kids. The other day he told me that he isn’t ready for kids yet. I’ve asked him twice to sort stuff out to get registered for our marriage, and he keeps forgetting to do that. We are both gamers, but the difference is, I game max three hours. But before I game. I cook and I clean. I fold the laundry. Etc. He doesn’t cook now that we moved into our new house. He just makes himself sandwiches or he orders take-out. What does he do? He games. All day. He’s up all day playing matches that can take up a hour per match. He was on yesterday morning. Afternoon. Evening. Climbing ranks or whatever.
I tried to talk with him about it today and he tells me that he’s home alone four days a week (he works from home and I don’t) so what else can he do. But as I’m writing this out, I was home yesterday when he was on all day. So that’s nonsense…. I told him to perhaps work out. Since I joined a gym the other day and we now live close to everything, trying to be helpful. And he dismissed that too.
I’m so lost. What do I do? This makes me want to stop gaming altogether. He’s on the pc all the time. Has no other hobbies. I want kids one day, and I’m really scared that he just wants to live like this forever. Anyone has experience with this, and if so, what did you do?