u/Historical_Dig_7465

I have a question about my size and my gf. When i f*** her i can go balls deep and still hit nothing. When I push in that deep she easily moans and cums, one time evem 3 times in a row. Does that mean my length is too short for her if i don't push in everything I got (it is uncomfortable and not pleasirable for me tbh? Also, when i am close to finishing she gets really horny and wet, she says it is because my dick feels girthier then. Does that mean bigger dick would be better for her and make her feel things I can't make her feel? Or make her cum more easily? With normal sex I can make her cum in maybe 30% of times, if I give her oral she cums in under 5% maybe and fingering is only painful for her. I feel like I can not satisfy her very well. I am 4.9 to 5" long and 5" to 5.5 in girth.

Edit: Often when I think i will finish I tell her, then she says ok. But after finishing she is upset and still wants to continue but I can not for at least 30mins to 1 hour. Then she is disappointed.

Hi

This question is not regarding long-term relationships where other things than dick size are way more important. I am talking about short-term relationships or even one-night-stands.

I already had a good amount of western women around my age or a bit older (I am 22). And after "doing it", if the situation allowed it, I asked how it was for them. I maybe asked 8 women altogether. 2 said it was ok, 4 or 5 said I am kind of small and that they didn't enjoy it too much, 1 said she first thought it looks too short to be fun but the girth made up for it a bit.

I have to say that I really like asian girls looks but never had the chance so far. My question is, to those who have experience: Are they different about dick size? I know they are not all the same but a general trend is maybe visible. I am not talking about asians who grew up in the west but asian women who grew up for example in China or Korea. Are they more forgiving regarding smaller sizes (4.9-5")? You often hear many asian women don't like big dicks and are not used to it.

My worry is also that she would think that I am white and therefore bigger than what she knows and then is disappointed when seeing my size.

Does anyone have experience with chinese, vietnamese, korean or japanese women, also the ones now living in the west, regarding this issue? How big are you and what did they think of it? Did you notice any difference to women from the Americas/Europe? Do they expect bigger sizes from western men?

Thanks in advance

I am 21 now. I remember I started measuring my size when I was 10. I was around 4.5" then. I noticed in the locker room in school I was quite big compared to the others then. Then with 13 I got to 5". Around that time I had my first ejaculation. From then it never grew. My beard grew, voice got deeper, armpit hair came but my size down there never changed. I am still 5" today, maybe over the years it got a bit thicker, but not much. My balls also did not grow so much, I remember them to always be like this, a bit bigger than grapes. Flaccid I am 2.5" or a bit more. Why is that? Why did everything go normal except that part? Anyone else with the same problem?