How to counter act and trailblaze against Toxic Native American family (it probably happens to any other family too)
I’ve always been a Rebel well not really I’ve always been like somewhat naive about control and power bc I would just listen to my mom and dad and brothers but after I started getting like conscious and growing up I’ve noticed my family mostly my mom is toxic it’s like she’s a spider weaving webs, webs laced with lies and deception and ignorance and playing cards like “I’m just a mom”I’m a women” I’m an elder” or using my brothers to attack me verbally and physically and then pulling cards like it’s just because u didn’t do your chores yada yada I know I don’t do my chores but why should I if nothing I do is ever good enough for her and whenever I disagree with her she just sends my brothers and gossips about me about anything I tell her and all my brothers do is hostile and aggressive communication and it only happens after they have a conversation with her. What am I trying to say is that my birth giver my mom is an a hole and a liar and a puppeteer if u believe that your mom is just as bad as mine please like this so I know it’s not just me out in this situation. I’ve tried talking to like normal people and they just say I’m being a brat like no there’s more to it then me not doing my chores it’s why I don’t do them why should I do them if my mom can’t take accountability and anytime I communicate about it to her she just sends my brothers after me to try to silence me or she even said she would tell the police I attacked her even tho I’ve never have she would attack me and has in a gas station parking lot and whenever I was a kid crying about kid things she would discipline me like it’s like swept under the rug because she’s a women and a mom and I don’t want it to be ignored women and moms can be abusive coercive and it’s time to stop being fools and idiots and acknowledging it I’m a women and I know that domestic violence needs to be talked about it’s not just dangerous boyfriends it’s also could be your mom your grandma your auntie and domestic violence can happen to men women lgbtq if anyone has a similar story please enlightened me