u/HollyRob1967

Okay, I know some people will find this crazy, but I don’t care. And I don’t need opinions on open relationships. My (49F) boyfriend (58M) and I are deeply in love. I have helped him realize/accept his bisexuality. We are very open about sex, and play with others. He really wants to explore sex with men more, but is only looking for sex. Does he hit gay bars? How does he find opportunities for exploration but not dating? In the traditional swingers culture, most men are closeted or only in it to get with women. So, our experience there is not translating well. To be clear, I am not soliciting sex here, i am genuinely seeking advice for how to help him explore his sexuality.