Gf problems
My girlfriend of 6 months wants to leave me because she feels like we aren’t compatible enough. Even though we have fun together and talk all day, she says she doesn’t feel a real connection with me. She’s apparently been having these thoughts for the last few months and thinks it’s better for us to end things now because if we break up further down the line, it would hurt both of us even more.
I’m trying to win her back because I genuinely think she might just be confused about what she wants. She’s also scared she’ll regret this decision after a few months. We were friends for a year before we got together, and during that time she lost most of her other friends, so in the end I became the main person she talked to every day.
She says she doesn’t want to lose me, but still feels like leaving is the best thing to do. I was thinking maybe we go back to being friends for a while and then try again later, but I honestly don’t know what to do. I can’t just let her leave without trying to fight for us because she’s genuinely different from anyone I’ve ever met. She’s beautiful inside and out, and even though she’s the prettiest girl in my college, what matters more to me is the person she is.
She also struggles mentally sometimes and has trouble fully collecting her thoughts, so I feel like that could also be affecting how she feels right now. I just need advice on what I should do going forward.
For now me and her have decided to take 2 weeks off without talking to her and after that she will make her decision.