r/PakistanElites

I get women staying at home when there is pregnancy and babies involved, so for the rest of that convo dont think about that scenario cuz im talking about women who say they deserve to sit at home after marriage in general

ppl say here that periods are unbearable, and therefore, women deserve to stay at home after marriage. I personally, dont find such a mindset attractive in a partner. I find ambition attractive (ambition in general not just career wise) and a reason for marriage is also support. Why would i marry to take another person's responsibility on top of mine and our kids, that sounds like the opposite of support. I have seen alot of women that are career oriented and want to be doctors and stuff and study hard and work hard. Women that are ambitious and are happy to work.

Whats with this double standards? If anyone hears a man say that they deserve to sit at home after marriage (no matter how shitty or how hard his job is) they will be called beghairat by both genders instantly, but for women they are entitled to sit at home? Are periods seriously this much unbearable that it makes women entitled to sit at home? And what do you think of the phrase "Be a man and provide financially and emotionally"

AGAIN I DONT MEAN WHEN THERE IS PREGNENCY OR BABIES INVOVLED

can do some pretty good things for y'all elitesss

• Reminding you about deadlines, meetings, gym, meds, assignments, whatever
• Being your daily accountability person
• Morning wake-up texts/calls if your alarm has lost authority
• Checking in so you actually finish the thing you said you'd finish
• Making schedules/to-do lists
• Planning trips, events, gifts, purchases, etc.
• Hunting down options/prices/contacts for things you cannot be bothered to research
• Helping manage applications
• Writing/rephrasing boring professional stuff
• Keeping track of follow-ups
• Basically being the extra functioning brain cell you rent when life gets messy

If you have some weird task and you're thinking “would someone actually do this for money?” please DM me because the answer may very well be yes 😭

If you're a founder, student, freelancer, small business owner, professional, or just chronically disorganised, send me what you need + your budget.

Need money. Have skills.

So for context I used to work in sweet creme as an order taker and you might have seen the phool bechne wale bachay or ladies selling their gajre to you..they can be annoying at some point but they are chill with us cuz they we are in a same class so I was just asking them how much they make in a month and that kid said (1.5-2 lakh Nikal ata mahine ka) I was soo stunned and he ain't no exception cuz we have other people selling other shi too...aik mother ati puri family mangti hai and her little kid makes 1000-1500 per day and she has 2,3 kids btw jinka kaam Sirf mangna hai and she sells gajre herself so God knows how much she makes a month.... another gajre wala ( full grown man).. he said 16k pe dehari lagai hai and weekends pe acha kaam hota...he gets one gajra for 40 rs and sells it for minimum 150 and can sell one for 500 if he sees a couple in a good car...so he makes around over 100k easily too..I got soo surprised for how much they all were making where an person is earning around 60k...they are well above avg tho...(Last man said to me " Tum bhi ye phool becha karo bas kapre phate hone chahiye or halat buri honi chahiye") 😭 I just laughed it off

Yar larkion ka gore gore paon dekh k raha nai jata😭😭

so i posted here yesterday offering design/writing services (my post). today, 22 minutes ago, u/Late_Ad_7678 posted this in the same sub: [https://www.reddit.com/r/hiringpakistan/s/hN99CY18zz]

for context, look at the structure side by side:

• same section order (design → editing → writing)
• same "the person everyone comes to when they need X" opener
• same self-deprecating broke-student framing
• same "i'm THAT girl in my department" line
• same scholarship/GPA credibility line, worded almost identically
• same "pricing is in PKR, negotiable for students" closer

My original post

Copied Post

this isn't "similar vibe," it's copied. i wrote my post myself, in my own voice, and this is basically a reworded version of it posted less than a day after mine went up.

not trying to start unnecessary drama, just think people should know before they end up hiring off a copied post. screenshots attached for anyone who wants to compare side by side.

Hi...M25 and my friend is M21. We have been friends for like 4 years. He is a very funny, cute, intelligent guy and it is a lot of fun to hangout with him. We would go every where together. His family knows me and respects me deeply. Even his uncles and aunts and cousins know me.

Last year he asked me to marry his sister. I don't know why but I felt that coming way before he said it. They are religious and do parda and stuff. I told him at that moment that I can't make this decision RN but i will definitely give it a thought when I was ready to get married. Acha few months after that, he was teasing me physically and I asked him not to tease me as this thing arouses me. He teased me more and one thing lead to another and he kissed me and we had sec. I was upset for a few days cuz I did that in the heat and wasn't really UpTo it. He tried talking and resolving this but it didn't worked. Long story short we started to go out again and things got like they were before. I got comfortable with him and we had a lot of sec(he is Bottom). I discovered that I am not straight but rather bi and that was oky for me. After few months like this and he confessed that he is GAY and he used to think about me and masturbate to it. I was so shocked to hear cuz I have never been around someone who was Literally Gay. Not just that he likes boys For now cuz he is having trouble finding girls but literally Gay. Idk why but this confrontation was exhausting for me. Idk what to think of all this. What to think of the marriage proposal he gave me and all.

Assalam o Alaikum everyone,

I feel really embarrassed writing this here, but honestly I have reached a point where I don’t know what else to do.

I am currently studying BS Computer Science at NUST and I am about to start my 5th semester.

Until a few months ago, my father was supporting my education and our family. Around five months ago, he suddenly suffered a severe heart attack. We spent almost everything we had on his treatment and also took loans. He later underwent bypass surgery, but unfortunately my father passed away around two months ago.

Since then, our whole financial situation has changed.

My father’s pension has still not started, we already have debts from his treatment, and right now we are basically managing our household expenses with a lot of difficulty. I am also trying to do whatever work I can alongside my studies to support my mother and manage my own expenses.

The problem is that my 5th semester fee is around PKR 225,000, and at this point there is absolutely no way for us to arrange this amount.

I have already approached the university scholarship/financial aid office and NAA and tried whatever options I could, but unfortunately I was informed that the relevant assistance is not being awarded this year.

I really don’t want to leave my degree after reaching this point. Completing my education is honestly the only way I see myself becoming financially independent and being able to support my mother in the future.

It is very difficult and embarrassing for me to ask here, but if anyone can help me with the semester fee, even partially, or can lend me some amount that I can repay gradually once I start earning, I would be extremely grateful.

If someone wants to help by paying the university fee directly, that is completely fine as well.

I can provide all verification including my NUST student ID, enrollment details, official fee challan, my father’s death certificate, medical documents, and any other proof required.

I have genuinely tried every option available to me before posting here. I just don’t want my education to stop because of something that is currently completely beyond my control.

If anyone can help, guide me toward someone who can, or even connect me with any donor, organization or person who supports students in such situations, I would be really grateful.

JazakAllah Khair for reading.

I have around Rs. 50,000 saved up, and instead of just keeping it in a bank account, I’d like to invest it somewhere and hopefully grow it over time.
I’m a complete beginner when it comes to investing and don’t really know much about stocks, mutual funds, or other investment options.
What would you guys recommend for someone starting out with around Rs. 50,000 in Pakistan? I’d really appreciate any advice, tips, or beginner-friendly investment options.

I need someone to take care of me, 😔😔😔 in every way like why it is so difficult to be with a guy who’s like that, it’s not like i’m hard to be with , can be a little psychotic at times but not always

I have PKR 1–2 million to put into a small private business. No experience, so I'm keeping the ticket small on purpose.

Most businesses at this size here run on memory and a notebook. I've decided not to touch those — if I can't see two to three years of accounts, bank statements and tax filings, I'm not interested. That narrows the pool a lot, which brings me to what I'm stuck on:

- **How do I find them?** Do documented SMEs looking for investment go through brokers, accountants, chambers of commerce, listing sites — or is it all personal network?
- **How do I check them?** With documents in hand, what do you actually verify, and what gets faked most often?

If you've bought into or invested in a small business in Pakistan, I'd like to hear how you found it and what you checked before handing over money.

SINCE MY LAST POST DID GET ME ONLY CREEPS THESE ARE MY REAL SKILLS
recently laid off and currently looking to make myself useful before my uni chance gets missed(yes i do need money but want it based on pure skills and not pity).

I do social media marketing + virtual assistant work, but I’m also open to the random tasks nobody else wants to do.

I can help with:

• Social media management
• Instagram/LinkedIn posts & captions
• Canva designs, carousels & basic graphics
• Content planning
• LinkedIn profile/content help
• Research + lead generation
• Emails, spreadsheets & admin stuff
• Organising files/calendars/tasks

Can someone tell me why we need to hire from FAST when claude is doing heavy lifting ?
Seems like graduates from other institutions are the right fit for now, cheap affordable and can be good.
And do not come to me with technical stuff, i am a heavy user of claude and worked with them as well

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A little context: Its been 2 months since I graduated (Cs grad from that famous uni 🙂) and yeah I know given the current situation of the market 2 months are nothing but its not about not getting a opportunity which makes you worried but its the people who are getting internships and job with reference I guess its a reality we just have to live with. It just feels that everyone has made it except you. I might be average but can average people not learn ? We often read comparison is the thief of joy but it's just so hard to see people who are like you getting so ahead that too undeservingly and you are stuck getting no replies.

Purpose: I won't tell what skills I have, for that I can dm you my cv but I just want to say that I am willing to learn, I am good at communication, coordinating with people, have knowledge about fundamentals and I want to give my best for someone who gives me an opportunity. I am seeking ideally a remote opportunity with at least some stipend as I have to at least manage my expenses, That's the least I can contribute (From Lhr).

Any advice will help too.

Any Brits living in Pakistan? 🇬🇧🇵🇰 I moved here from the UK been nearly 3 years and would love to connect with other Brits who’ve made the move too! Would be nice to make some friends and meet people in the same boat

Hey guys I’m currently a 3rd-year Software Engineering student and was wondering if anyone knows of any job openings that pay monthly.
I’m open to remote work and can manage my university schedule around the job when needed. I’m currently learning DB, AI, LangChain, GenAI, and Flutter, and I also have some experience/knowledge in marketing and account management.
Any leads or recommendations would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

do you all think that tall girls are for tall guys and short girls are for short guys and I don’t get in my short guys are insecure when they come near to me. I’m 5’8 by the way, but I’m alright being with a short guy and I would love to be with one, but it’s just a way moody and short😔😔😔