r/PakistanElites

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Hey Guys,

I want to donate some money for a genuine cause or situation. Budget is flexible for genuine cause/situation.

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Assalam o Alaikum,

I’m 24 years old and currently in the 7th semester of my bachelor’s degree. I know I’m a bit behind academically but after intermediate I was diagnosed with TB and my condition became quite serious. Because of that I practically lost almost two years of my life academically and professionally. Alhamdulillah I’m completely healthy now.

At the moment I run my own e-commerce brand and Alhamdulillah it’s doing very well. I’m earning and saving seven figures monthly. The problem is that over the last three semesters I’ve completely lost interest in studies. I’ve especially been struggling with mathematics subjects and keep getting F grades because maths requires proper time consistency and regular practice which I honestly cannot manage right now.

People usually say things like just make time and study but realistically my work is extremely stressful mentally draining and time-consuming. By the end of the day I barely have the energy left to focus on studies.

So I genuinely wanted an outside opinion. If you were in my position what would you do? Would you continue forcing yourself to complete the degree somehow or focus fully on the business that is already working well for you?

4,444 miles away from home eid is around the corner feeling homesick.
Let’s talk

Guys I belong to a middle class family and any guy i have talked to or liked me were rich but since we live in Pakistan not in my caste but ofc I don't talk to people from my caste but other caste and the real question is "is falling in love with a rich guy worth it?" Like the guy im talking to is rich but he doesn't brag about it or something but I feel so insecure im not kinda person that goes for rich guys because whenever I talk to them I can js feel that we live such different lives and if things goes further w the guy i am talking to won't his parents or him be like that ohh why would he marry someone from lower class like he likes me and wants to date but im js so insecure opinions?

Hotel rooms for unmarried couples in Muzaffarabad

Hi, chat me and one of my female friend is travelling to Kashmir for a 4 days trip.Its our first tour and we have never stayed in any hotel before. Our plan is to stay in Muzfrabad on fay one. Can someone tell me if we can get a room in any good hotel without any issues? Any help would be appreciated

The parents have asked that the girl and guy should talk and it's better to get to know each other. Girl's family hasnt met up with the guy cause he's abroad. They did take the girl's number so the guy can contact. Haven't had contact yet. But the girl got to know from the person who introduced the families that the guy is completely dependent on his parents to make this decision for him. Which feels weird to the girl as she'd like someone who is interested in her.
The guy's family seems to have a really good bond with each other and the parents, like friends.
What are the reasons someone wouldn't wanna choose for themselves in today day and age? And is it a bad thing?

I’ve seen both sides of Pakistan.

My father and uncles were not born into wealth. They came from a very modest background (farming) and built everything themselves over decades through business, risk-taking, consistency, and sacrifice. Growing up, I saw the transition from financial struggle to what most people today would consider an “elite” lifestyle.

Because of that, I’ve had exposure to both worlds:
the mindset of people building from nothing,
and the lifestyle/network/business culture of Pakistan’s upper class.

I’ve noticed that a lot of people online are curious about how elite families in Pakistan actually think and operate — business, networking, education, cars, social circles, money habits, status, family systems, etc. Most discussions are either fake flexing or pure assumptions.

So I thought I’d make this post and answer questions honestly from my own experience.

Not claiming to know everything — just sharing what I’ve genuinely seen growing up around it.

Hey, I am 24 F, a young entrepreneur, running my own startups and with all of it that I do, I don't seem to have like minded friends :(

So I want to network, connect and make friends who seem to think of themselves as EXTRAORDINARY!!

Should I look forward and wait?

I’m 26m, and I feel like I don’t really understand myself. I’ve never been a people person. I don’t know how to start conversations, and even when I do have something to talk about, the conversation usually ends quickly because I don’t know how to continue it. I’m tired of feeling alone, but at the same time, I feel like I’ve accepted it. Another issue is that I talk really fast, and people often don’t understand me, so I have to repeat myself. Because of that, I sometimes feel like staying silent is better because I feel like I can’t talk properly. This happens everywhere: at my office, in my hostel, and even at family gatherings. I either end up alone, or I isolate myself. I don’t want attention or sympathy. I just want to be able to talk normally, but I don’t know how. Sometimes I feel like my words don’t make sense, and I start thinking I’m just wasting people’s time. Has anyone else dealt with this? How did you improve your conversation skills, confidence, or speaking pace? Any advice, lessons, or practical steps would really help.

This post is for your self betterment. Let me put this into perspective for you.

As a man just imagine every day you get this message

'Yaar, tum bohat achay lag rahay ho'.

Then every night a girl messages you

Kya hum aaj raat mil saktay hain?

And every time you go out a girl says to you

Aao main tumharay liye khana kharidata hoon kyunki tum bohat achay ho

How are you going to feel? You're gonna feel like you're ontop of the world. You're gonna feel special right? You're gonna feel like Mr Samnabad or Mr Allama Iqbal town.

Now reverse the roles, this is what the average/good looking Pakistani girl will receive on a daily basis. Her attitude/ego and perception will be shaped by men constantly praising her and talking to her in this way. Is it something blameworthy? Absolutely not. If you received messages like these you wouldn't say no to them.

Therefore the first step is to move away from this, stop messaging random girls on insta or bombarding girls with texts. Work on yourself and focus on those higher goals whether that be business, religion or education.

#6 will be the next post and will focus on business ideas