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Curious about my friend

I'm 20f. Are 🍭 daddies a thing in pakistan lol. Just curious I'm not looking for one (🤗) . My friend is currently talking to someone and he pays for all of her stuff but she's just using him for money. She doesn't even do anything explicit just talks to him and he showers her with gifts and stuff. Did she got lucky or people like him exists fr who don't know where to spend 😭🙏🏻

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u/chikalover_ — 10 days ago

Divorce harvard and embarrassment

(Read the complete post otherwise don't)So this story is about my cousin(my tayas daughter),so she is our eldest cousin,we all cousins looked up to her since our childhood,she used to lead us in everything,she was like my elder sister,as soon as she completed her A levels she went to university of Toronto,she completed her studies came back to Pakistan and got married with a guy from her family friends, even i danced on her wedding,after marriage they both moved to Canada

Few years passed and we heard the news that she got divorced,idk the exact reason but we have heard it was related to finances,all of our family was shocked listening to that bcz it was the first divorce of our family ever and she was our eldest cousin

So my family is very toxic,like my chachus etc,we all started shaming her parents on this,we started making them feel embarrassed and started saying bad things to her parents,tbh even my dad, and tbh all of our family was really in shock, and my chachus used to say stuff like aur bhejo lerki ko bahir perhne akeli and etc,she was so embarrassed that she didn't even come to Pakistan for years out of shame

Years passed,and she worked super hard and got admission in harvard,she completed her postgrad degree from there, but still meri family, chachus ka shaming her parents band nahi hua,phir 2 years ago she got married again to a super rich American Pakistani businessman,and my same family(chachus etc)danced on her wedding who used to say bad stuff to her parents,phir jaker mun band hua sabka

So she proved that "once an elder always an elder"...and I'm so happy for her may Allah bless her with more and more,so this might be an inspirational story for some girls so i thought i should share

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u/jd100O — 11 days ago

Why do they always come back?

this question is for guys only. Why do you come back after being the worst version of yourself when you were with them?😏 also what do girls think about guys coming back to them?

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u/kuromiyet — 11 days ago

Looking for (serious) Hindu match.

Hey everyone. I’m a 25M Hindu businessperson working across multiple domains and regions, with roots and parentage from Sialkot.

I am looking to connect with a girl from a well-settled, educated family for marriage. Personally, I have no urgency to marry immediately—I am looking at a timeline of about a year from now. I strongly prefer to get to know someone first and build compatibility before involving families.

Regarding the future, I am open-minded and hoping to eventually settle back in Pakistan or anywhere else globally where business takes us.

Any potential prospects, leads, or relevant sub/community recommendations would be highly appreciated. Please feel free to DM.

edit: girl can be from any religion, tribe, .. until she's okay with me being Hindu.

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u/Alien_drum — 11 days ago

Myth or Reality? 👀

Girls, why do you think some women cheat?

I’m not talking about experimenting or being curious. I’ve just heard a lot of stories lately, and I genuinely wonder what makes someone risk a relationship for someone else.

Is it emotional neglect, attraction, validation, boredom, or something deeper?

From my understanding, a man’s behavior can sometimes change a woman completely. When she starts feeling that he’s less serious, stops taking a stand, doesn’t protect the relationship, or isn’t confident enough to stand up for her and make her feel secure, can that change how she sees him?

Girls, what’s your take?

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u/lily-garden — 10 days ago