How to think fast when you're weak in clear communication. How to win an argument
I don't know to argue back
Fear of expressing my thoughts because ppl Will judge and i don't know to argue back and I have a constant thought that everyone is smart than me. So I accept whatever their opinion is so fastly. I mostly lose all the arguments even if I have done nothing wrong just because I don't know how to defend or explain myself. I feel so stupid and small when that happens. I wanna think fast and explain myself so clearly. I wanna have confidence in my speech that people tend to believe me trustfully. I was raised in a house where my opinion never really mattered.
I'll tell you an incident:
My friend has a skillfull thing in making her opinion clearer and more convenient to people, and I have a more logical and practical opinion which is the obvious one. But people ended up taking her opinion and got wronged because her opinion was more convincing and i blabbered and didn't keep the point strongly. this is draining me
someone has to give me a solution.