u/HonestRole4158

(22F) I’ve always had somewhat of a close relationship with my mum. However, she is going through a bad divorce w/ my dad, and we got closer lately.

My bf surprised me with a graduation trip to France, and my mum was alright with it at first (of course with discussions and complaints)

Now, 2 days before leaving, she started arguing that I’m doing the wrong thing as a Christian SDA girl, because he’s not my husband and etc etc… she’s now mad at me, and complains that I never even thought of her in this situation, my brother (28M) is going through the same thing, and we don’t know how to handle it anymore.

I don’t wanna ruin my holiday, but neither my relationship with her…

Any adviceeee?