So, I was talking to this guy and I felt like he wasn’t interested anymore, i felt like we were getting on really good but ig not, so I brought it up. He said that yeah, he had kind of lost that feeling a bit and that it wasn’t anything about me, just that something was missing. We met up and talked about it, and it actually went really well.
Now afterward, I feel like I don’t really care that much about him specifically anymore, but I still want him to regret it, mostly for my ego, I think 😅 We still snap, and he hasn’t completely cut off contact, but my friends have told me he’s started trying to find a bunch of other girls.
Do you think this is something he’ll regret over time, or am I just being delusional for wanting to believe that he’ll regret it and wanting to come back?
u/Honest_Discipline_34
I’m a F20 talking to a M21. We met on a night out and ended up sleeping together. He told me early on that he’s never had a girlfriend before and doesn’t really know how to act in situations like this. He’s also pretty introverted, so when he asked me out, he did it through a friend of his who has a girlfriend so we could go on a double date.(although hes a LOT more extroverted now)
After that, he came over to my place and stayed the night (nothing happened), and since then we’ve been hanging out here and there. Most of the time, I’m the one asking to meet up, though he usually says he wants to.
The thing that’s been bothering me is communication. We barely talk when we’re apart, and he’s said himself that he’s a bad texter. At first I tried to understand that, but lately it’s started to feel more like he just doesn’t care that much. Something important happened in my life a few days ago, and I wanted to share it with him, but all I got back were short, dry replies. We’ve both said that we’re developing feelings for each other, but i feel like if someone really cares about you and sees you as more than just an option, shouldn’t they show more interest in your life? want to talk to you about anything and everything and also plan dates? If my gut tells me that hes just bored and just wants somebody when it fancies him, do yall think im right?