AITA for starting to hate my mom after her divorce?
my (21f) mom(40f) got divorced last year in February from my dad. It was messy, but I was on her side the whole time. Now, after moving out into my grandma's house, she's a completely different person.
Everything about her has changed and now it's like she's a shell of herself. All she talks about is the stupid parties she goes to and all the guys she's been talking to or having sex.
I'm not one to shame, but it has really made me lose respect for her. All my life she shamed me if she ever thought I had a bf at 13 (which I didn't).
Partying is her 1° priority. Not getting her driverslicense, not getting a home for herself, not work, it's those stupid parties and getting drunk and high that are important right now.
Even after complaining that she was low on money and couldn't get her licence bc of it (even after spending 100€ on one weekend at a party) , she paid the bail of her FWB, who is totally disrespectful of her and she admits that but still won't stop talking to him.
She even asked me to sleep at my boyfriends house a lot of times just so she could bring the guy hone to fuck. And she's super rude to her own mom, whom she lives with by the way, and always wants her out of the house so she can fuck some more.
Everytime I try put boundaries up and tell her I dont wanna hear about her latest sexual encounter or how she got so drunk/high last night she just apologizes, but goes right back to doing the same thing.
I'm just tired of my mom acting like a fucking teen in heat and having no sense of responsibility.
Am I being dramatic? is thid weird?