u/Honey_Bunn6

I work as a to go specialist but I’m ready to leave Olive Garden. Their demands are too much for me to handle. I have explained to them that they are asking for us to go people to do too much and all they said was “that’s part of the job. We pay you a livable wage so we don’t see why you’re struggling.” Maybe because I feel stupid asking for help when I’m slammed?!? Maybe because I’m tired of handling everything, from restocking containers, salads, etc, making bread when we don’t have a bread person, making desserts nonstop because the servers can’t do anything, you name it. I’m honestly feeling really good about leaving. They have absolutely drained me mentally and even though they are giving me time off, they probably won’t see me again by the end of next week if I get hired somewhere else.

My bf’s cat got outside and we couldn’t find him for a few minutes. Bf freaked out until his cat came back to our door to come back inside. Thing is that my bf and I have been through this three times now, and this time I was calm(I shook the cats food outside to try to lure him back and started making a FB post for my local community while waiting). I told my bf he needed to be calm about the situation, to which he lashed out at me saying “you’re experienced in this, you can handle it”. I tried calling him out saying he’s gone through this before and that in the future we can put an AirTag in the cat’s collar if it helps since this cat likes to try and go outside. I told him I didn’t appreciate how he acted and that 1. I have gone through the emotions of thinking I had permanently lost my cat and 2. We could have prevented it somehow because we knew he tried to get out multiple times. Am I wrong for telling him this? I feel bad but at the same time I think he overreacted a bit over everything.