Thoughts on why doesnt he do oral?
Yes I know the obvious answer is to ask him. In the beginning, I didn't ask because I was afraid if he said he didn't like it, I would take it personally and worry its me. Now I haven't asked because it doesn't cross my mind much anymore (he does still always make me cum during sex so its not like I'm orgasm-less) but it just popped in my head so I thought I'd see what others think.
We've been together several years. At first he never did it despite me giving regular head (I enjoy it, and I'd never want him to do something he may dislike) One night when he was more drunk than usual, he finally went down on me. Not long enough to make me cum, but I was thrilled. I made sure to show him how amazing it felt so he'd know I liked it. A couple weeks later, when drinking but no where near as drunk, he did it again, but again, not that long.
That was well over a year ago and he hasn't done it since. I'm very satisfied with our sex life so I'm not super sad without it, but I'd of course love it if he wanted to do it. I'm not sure if he just doesn't like it, or maybe isn't confident doing it (thus only doing it when drinking). I wouldn't call him vanilla, but he's definitely not as kinky as a lot of guys I've been with.
Any guys identify with this or have any thoughts? Fortunately for his health (but unfortunately for our sex life, lol) he rarely drinks anymore so I'm not too hopeful he'll ever try it again.