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My husband and I were in the middle of having sex when he asked if I’d be willing to have a threesome with another woman.
I told him no. I said I wasn’t comfortable with it, and I explained that I don’t want to watch my husband have sex with someone else. He kept asking, and I kept saying no.
After that, he completely lost interest in having sex with me, stopped everything, and barely spoke to me. Later he told me he doesn’t see a threesome as love—just sex—and that the other person would basically just be a “sex toy.”
Now I’m left feeling confused. Am I overreacting for feeling hurt by how he responded? I don’t judge people who enjoy threesomes, but I don’t want one in my marriage. I’m also worried that saying no made him upset enough to completely shut down. Okay the thing is.. he has brought this up in the past and I told him no already. But yet he still
Keeps insisting… we were literally having the best time and then he knows I’m damn well I’m going to say no. So why bring it back up? I don’t know.. should I just say yes to please him? Because I don’t want him to think I’m no fun. I am. I mean there’s other things we can do to have fun.
Has anyone else experienced something like this? How would you interpret his reaction?