u/Hopeful_Result_9426

This has probably been talked about 100 times already but im late sorry lol

I saw a lot of people talking about what the central conflict in the movie would be since the main storyline came to a conclusion. Mostly. Lol.

Ive been thinking it could be something to do with their family and friends not accepting belly and conrad together? Since we didnt see their reactions in the finale so i dont even think anyone but them really knows that they're together i mean maybe jere but they didnt show anything...

What do u yall think? What other conflicts could there be? I also havent read the books so if its not in the series please dont spoil it!

Just curious how everyone tackles decluttering. Though it'd be helpful to share many different methods to help others understand theres many ways to do this!

Do you start by item type, room by room, or something else?

Ill share whats been working for me:

I go through just random stuff and declutter only what im comfortable decluttering right now. I may pass back thru it again but to avoid overwhelm i just do for right now. I work toward one big donation day at a time, think maybe a car load size amount of stuff! And I give myself maybe a month or so in between to allow myself the time to process the change bc these things are sentimental and such. I dont go room by room or anything, just whatever im motivated to do or sounds easy since the more you do it the easier it gets so i follow that path of what i feel i can tackle next. I also like to start with whats visible as the visual progress motivates me to keep going.

I have been wanting to declutter ever since i was a kid, but due to a parent who wasnt willing to make such a change, i couldnt. Now that im able to, I decided this year i will change that, since i have many goals i want to reach this year that will require a clutter free house.

I got to work a couple weeks ago. I found a bunch of stuff such as sentimental pet supplies, old identity items, gifts that made me feel guilty, things i didnt know where i could donate, and so on. Definitely enough things to fill up a car.

I posted on marketplace, researched where to take certain things, and looked around in my own orbit of people to finally relieve my space of the things holding me back. But to my surprise, selling online didnt work out too great, i heard nothing back from donation places, and i felt bad asking people to take stuff that they most likely didnt want anyway plus it was too much to manage.

So i decided to just donate it all in one day. I got in touch with an animal rescue and met up to donate those items, which worked out great. I had a lady come pick up something i had listed originally for a fee but decided to list it for free and to my surprise again she took ALL of the items i didnt know where to bring saying she knew some people who would like them. Then i loaded everything else up in the car and just donated it to goodwill.

I felt a lot of mixed feelings for sure. Maybe this and what if that. I think my problem is i have nailed decluttering logically...but need more work on it emotionally, which is okay. I also have a need to make it perfect and sometimes its okay to just do it all in one day however that must work. Choose your own peace over perfectionism, fear, and money to make for a successful declutter day. You can be better later. I have already completed declutter day #2 and im excited to update about that soon :)