u/HoppingKiwi

On today’s topic of my frustrations, what do you mean my only option to move out bcs I wanna live a peaceful life alone is … getting married and literally again having to give up my independence? No bcs what do you mean in Maldives, rent situation is so sooo bad my only option to move out is to get married so that we both can SHARE rent? :( bcs nooo I wanna have my own apartment and pay my own rent and do my own things and live alone before I have to ever live with a MAN…?! Ugh whatever idc. I’m so hungry.

Literally what the fuck. Fuck everybody man I wanna fucking disappear and take a fucking dip in the ocean. Fuck.

A little vent.

I’m a type A person and my siblings are the opposite. I’m the monica geller in the family. They are carefree, lazy, doesn’t do anything to make life better or live an easier life, etc. Anyways, I leave for work after cleaning but I come home everyday from work to a messy house. And mind you we are blessed with a beautiful apartment. I go to sleep after cleaning the mess they make and still wake up to dishes in the sink and toys on the floor (oh yeah there is a toddler). The curtains are uneven. The damn trash is not taken out. Food in the sink. Crumbs of food on the sofa. The sofa is not where it’s supposed to be. At least go to sleep e change or hadi kuri thaneh saafu kohffa you know. There’s so much more. Sitting here thinking wth to do bcs even if i confront them, they don’t take the advice to learn and be better. Instead they get mad at me and think I’m belittling them. But i’m not. I want them to taste the type of life you get to live when you improve and incorporate good habits. Because having experienced it myself, i’m 100% they will also live a stress free life. But they don’t even bother trying to learn new good habits to live a fulfilled life and still complain about how miserable their life and routine is. Why can’t they be considerate of me the way I’m trying to be considerate of them? At least do this much for me bcs i wanna be at peace. Please if you got any advice for me on how to stay calm and adjust to this situation, lmk.
Oh and I wanna add. I do feel a lot of pressure. I’m young and i think i’m the only one thinking about my parents and their retirement. I have my own goals as well. But i tend to put my family first as we all do, but somehow i feel more pressured than the rest of my siblings. And idk how to feel about that either. I neeeed good advice.

Also yes I am complaining. Because my head hurts. I feel so much pressure and i’m bloated from stress asf. And I want some peace. So let me have this 😓

I need help bringing some meds

Dear mods, i’m not begging let me posttt

Last I watched was 27 dresses. It was…okay. Definitely fun

Hi can I talk to someone? Someone who’s open minded, not a judger, will listen, and will give good advice/opinion. thanks ☺️

Can y’all tell me every single shop where you shop for groceries. Whole foods, especially spices. Places where I can get almost anything. And please lmk any other necessary spice to add to this list👇

Salt
Black pepper
Garlic powder
Onion powder
Paprika
Canjun seasoning
Dried thyme
Oregano
Basil
Canjun
Rosemary
Tumeric
Coriander
Cumin powder
Cinnamon
Parsley
Cayenne
Chilli flakes