u/Horror-Oven3022

So I matched with a girl on Bumble from my uni.

For context, I'm actually getting graduate in 2026 but I had to put 2027 on my profile (on purpose). Because of that, I thought I had very limited time (like 15 days or so) for making the connection, so I kind of rushed things early on.

Looking back, I feel like I might have come off a bit too eager/desperate which probably killed the vibe.

Also there’s this weird timing thing—whenever I’m active, she goes inactive, and then replies come much later. Not sure if that means low interest or just bad timing.

We were talking fine initially, but now her replies feel less interested

Did I mess this up by rushing? Or am I overthinking and this is just normal texting behavior?