I (30F) have been dating a guy (30M) for 2 months who I met on Bumble. We’re 10-15 dates in, we have a great time with each other. We went on dinner dates, movie nights, walking in a park or cooking together, so it really felt like a more serious, non-casual thing for me. I have been clear about wanting a relationship and he also had long-term relationship on his profile. The only thing that was a bit odd is that we barely talk between dates and I tried to drive the conversation more. But whenever I texted him I was positively reassured, so I thought that’s just how he is.
I opened Bumble today after a notification and to my surprise, he added a new picture. We had our last date yesterday night, so I’m quite shocked by this.
How should I take this information? I don’t want to be naive and have hopes for someone who is dating others, but we are not exclusive yet so idk if I have the right to question this. I just think that after so many dates this is not a great sign.
Any advice on how to handle this is welcome!