Need advice. Am i cooked?
30 M getting married to 25F. Background we met in our workplace. When we met, my long term relationship was almost ending, she was also in a stable long term relationship. Long story short both ours ended due to separate reasons. She was too invested in him. We got close became each others support, but it took her a long time to get over him. She came into a relationship with me even though she didnt get over him. Now her dad met me and instantly liked me, and our marriage got fixed, though we hadnt thought about it. I asked het explicitly if she wants it or not. She said she was sure. There were a lot of relapses where she wanted to talk to him etc, i patiently supported her through that.
So coming to the main thing. I trust her completely , she has always been honest. We have a very transparent phone policy. That day i was chat gpting something in her phone, i saw her history where she asked chat GPT to draft a post regarding a goodbye message to her ex. In it she wrote not in this lifetime, maybe in next life time we will be together and you will priortize me.
So this thing punched me in the gut like hell. I know she loves me, she has always been honest. But how do i deal with seeing this? I haven’t confronted her yet about this. She has categorically told she doesnt even want to go back to her ex abd he is blocked from everywhere.
PS: The message was from last march, she had told me she wanted to draft a final goodbye message to her ex. I saw the chat gpt draft just recently