Do I need Counselling ?
I am 31 male.
I have been holding off marriage talks all these while, yesterday I told my family I don’t want to get married at all. The reason I have told them is that I have never seen myself with someone else and I don’t think I could lead a life with a partner.
But that’s just one of the reason I guess. TBH I am not really able to pin this on one reason. I am someone who would take things to heart when it comes to family, meaning if my parents or siblings would say something untoward remark or even mere shrug, my whole day would be done with. Then I would have to splurge a premium on food to get a good sleep. At the same time there has been days when I have felt what’s the point of family where I don’t feel any connection with them at all as if they are some acquaintances living in a same home. And then it seriously worries me to the point I cry all night thinking what if they are not with me anymore.
Yesterday I broke out crying just thinking about these in front of family. That’s when I actually told them that I don’t want to get married at all. And they told me that fear of getting married is normal and if needed we can go for counselling