u/Hosenkobold

Your SO is treating everyone friendly, but doesn't go out of their way for most people. But you can have any comfort. Even if it sometimes means that you are treated better than your mutual friends while hanging out together. Especially if we're talking about money. Like your SO will pay for everything you want, but your mutual friends, who might not have as much money, don't get the same treatment, even if your SO could easily pay for them as well.

Would you accept that treatment or would you prefer your SO to scale down the treatment of you? Or do you do something else?

Hi,

I met few ENFPs IRL over the years and wanted to ask where it's more likely to find you guys. Especially in Germany if regional or cultural settings matter. One of my best friends is an ENFP and I really love the quality time ENFPs gave me so far.

I work as IT system engineer and my job seems to function like a barrier for ENFPs. It's the rather boring (not for me though) part of IT security and architecture. And my outdoor hobbies so far are very solo activities or stuff like swimming where you don't really talk to strangers.

And I think straight asking you will be easier than frying my brain by trying to get my pattern recognition to make sense of you guys. There's more fun things to keep that one busy.

Best regards