u/HospitalBeautiful817

As stated in the title my girlfriend gets upset over super simple things and we've been together for a year and a month. I will list examples of situations and I want any advice that yall can give me on this.

1. An example of things she will get upset at is things like me saying I wanted to go to bed, this then leads her into a one hour long crying sessions and she doesn't say anything to me. She has done this for multiple nights on a row, often leading me to go to bed a hour later even when I had school the next day or something important. I also went to bed feeling drained, and I noticed when I told her any of my problems like that she got sad, so I asked whats wrong and she said she gets sad hearing about my problems. So I asked, "What do you not want me to talk about them?" and she said yes, so I can't talk about my issues but she can talk about hers all she wants.
2. Another thing she's gotten upset at is me saying on text is that I was going to go back in time and beat alexander Hamilton to death to keep the musical from becoming a thing. She then a hour later, tells me on call that I made her sad (she never gave me any idea she was sad on text). After telling me she's sad she goes completely silent and when I ask what's wrong I get told im not upset. I ask again after sitting in silence for a minute and she says that what I said upset her, I ask her why and she says I don't wanna say. So then on call we just sit there in silence and im trying to start some kind of conversation or something since she clearly doesnt wanna talk about it and said she doesn't need to be alone. But she does this thing when she's upset where she responds in one word, not at all, or clearly un-interested in the topic so I can't do anything
3. Finally she clearly doesn't respect my boundaries. There are two major examples of this, the first time was in the parking lot of a boba shop. She wanted a kiss and I am iffy with PDA but kisses are ok. But then she kept going and I could tell she was trying to make out, I told her no but she didn't stop at first but then pulled away. She then proceeded to lay her seat back and start pouting, not responding to anything I say. Hours later I asked what upset her and she said I didn't want to makeout, even though Ive clearly told her that makes me uncomfortable. The second example was in the college dorm area, we were watching the boondocks on a laptop when she wanted a kiss, I kissed her and she did the same thing. I tell her no but this time she just went silent. For two and a half hours, she is balling her eyes out and not facing me. Once again not saying anything, and being fed up I asked what do you want me to do when you don't respect me. She then said, I don't know her usual response.

I like her alot, but I feel this is toxic as hell, this isn't even everything.