I was only married 15 months.
This isn’t a pity party it’s just me ranting about my situation. If anyone can relate I would love to hear it. My husband (22M) and I (21F) got engaged after 10 days of spending time with each other. Before this we would only FaceTime as he was in the Marines. I knew he liked me the entire time I had a boyfriend but I would just chat with him. After breaking up with my ex, my husband came home on leave for 10 days and spent every second with me. I thought I found the one and he did too, he proposed right before going back to base then I followed him across the country 3 months later. As soon as I arrive to where he was stationed we got married at the courthouse. No family, no friends, just us. I regret this so much now. Fast forward he got kicked out of the military right after I found out I was pregnant. He had gotten multiple NJPs ( Non judicial punishments) for just being stupid honestly. I mentioned to him I didn’t feel like we would work out a few months after we both returned to our home town. He made my home somewhere my mom did not want to be which made her take everything out on me during pregnancy and postpartum. Even though life with us just coparenting is better, that whole thing was something I should’ve never let happen. He loves his daughter and makes an effort to be a good father to her. As far as treating me with respect though you can forget about that.