u/Hot-Breakfast-1434

Is it normal for breaking a hymen to hurt so much??

I (18F) and my bf (19M) have been together almost a year and we enjoy nonPIV activities, but whenever he tries to break the hymen and have piv with me it's like the worst pain ever and I always tell him to stop... the pain has even made me cry several times. I usually have high tolerance for pain but this feels just so bad

He's been able to insert a finger or two with no pain in specific positions, but never his dih

I've been trying to get to a gynecologist but nowhere near my university takes my insurance 😭

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u/Hot-Breakfast-1434 — 8 days ago