AIO I'm not invited to my sister's baby shower.
Hello, my sister is five months pregnant and wants to have a baby shower for the gender reveal. She initially asked me to do it (to be the one who set up the surprise). But her boyfriend scheduled something with one of their friends and they decided on a date.
Except that, on this very specific date, my dad, my brother, and I had a big trail competition we'd been training for a year. We planned that a very long time ago... But my brother-in-law seems to have forgotten about it and doesn't want to reschedule.
So, they're doing it anyway. Even if my sister's whole family can't be there (we are all very close... so this feels really weird, it's the first baby in our family, it's kind of a big deal, I'm becoming an aunt, my father a grandfather... we were all very excited about it and now it feels weird, they're going to have this big moment knowing none of us can be there).
My sister seemed sad about it, by the way, but her boyfriend said that his friend took a day off for this, so this is why they can't postpone.