AITAH for not wanting to clean my parents' room
I (18F) live at home with my parents, and since I was younger, I have always been in charge of cleaning their bedroom and bathroom. For reference, my father is always going back and forth between my home country and the country where the rest of my family and I live due to work.
Since I was young, I’ve always been responsible for cleaning their bedroom as well as their bathroom. In my culture, whenever your partner travels or stays away for a long time, when they come back, the sheets have to be switched to white ones as a sign of welcoming them home. I was also in charge of doing this, even though my mom was at home and it’s her husband who is returning.
As I grew older, I started feeling a bit uncomfortable continuing to clean their bedroom because it felt weird to make the bed my parents sleep in and handle everything in their personal space every single day. I just felt disgusted and never understood why my mother wouldn’t just do it herself. After all, it is their bedroom and their private space.
My dad had been away for a while, so I gradually stopped cleaning the room, and my mom started doing it instead. Today, he brought it up and forced me to start doing it again. I am honestly very frustrated because I find it uncomfortable. Why do I have to be the one making your bed and handling your sheets when you are the ones who sleeps in there ? Please tell me if I’m being unreasonable.