Me '28m' my partner '26f' vacationed for 5 days without me. Won't hang out or have sex with me. How do I bring it up?
We've been talking for 6 months now. I have a lease ending in September and we both want to live together and potentionally becoming serious about our relationship. She was recently on vacation for 5 full days without any access to me but text. We never talked on the phone once either. Assuming she'd miss me since shes been back its been a week and shes hung out with friends 3 different times and hasn't even asked me about hanging out or going out for that matter. Yet shes told me very recently for the first time that she loves me and we've been talking about stuff into the future which to me demonstrates shes thinking about our future together. Like buying furniture for our new place meeting her family etc etc. However recently a couple days ago we got into a argument she said some pretty nasty things to me that line up with how shes been treating me recently like "the thought of you touching me grosses me out" meanwhile she isnt coming around or letting me come around her. So now in my head I feel although she was angry with me there's truth to what she said. Now the next 3 days including today ive withdrawn myself more and more and more. Im dreading talking to her about how it makes me feel that im such a low priority in her life that she doesnt even feel the need spend anytime with me at all despite being gone for 5 full days and now another week has passed and still nothing. How do I approach something like this with her and not sound so "desperate" or "angry" about how shes made me feel.