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So there’s this boy at my school, we’ll call him B (15 M). B is really cute, and honestly everybody likes him. I liked him, and my now ex-BFF, we’ll call her A (15 F), liked him too. She liked him A LOT, but I also really liked him, so things got awkward fast.
At first, me (15 F) and A were lowkey fighting over him, which looking back is kind of crazy because it was over a boy. Then B and A actually started dating. The problem was, the whole time he liked another girl, L (15 F) so honestly… he was kind of a bop.
After B and A broke up, me and B ended up talking a lot because we sat by each other in class. We got closer, and we even dated for literally one day. Nothing happened while he was still with A—we only started talking like that after they were already broken up.
That still made everything worse because A was upset, and then my other friend P also liked him, so then me and P started having issues too. It felt like everybody was fighting over the same person, and it got super dramatic for no reason.
At one point, I called B a bop because of how messy everything was and because he seemed to always like someone else while talking to somebody different. After that, he told me he didn’t like me anymore. That honestly hurt a lot and made me cry because even with all the drama, I really did like him.
I wasn’t trying to be the bad guy, but I also know I wasn’t completely innocent either. I liked him too, and feelings were messy. I wasn’t trying to hurt A, and I wasn’t trying to start problems with P (15F)either, but everything kept getting bigger and bigger.
Then somehow my name got mentioned in second period when my friend J(15F) got in trouble, and my teacher came in asking questions, which made everything even more embarrassing because now school drama was becoming teacher drama.
At this point I’m just wondering if any friendship is worth being ruined over a boy like this. I feel like we were all doing too much, and now I’m left trying to fix friendships that might not even be fixable.
AITA for still liking him, talking to him, dating him after he and my best friend broke up, and calling him a bop after everything that happened?