My boyfriends bestfriend doesn’t like me
English is not my first language, sorry for any spelling or grammar mistakes.
Long time lurker, first time poster.
As the title says, my boyfriends(m24) bestfriend(m24) doesn’t like me(f23)
We have been together for 11 months and had our ups and downs and been through a lot such as me being in the military for 4 months in the beginning of our relationship. His bestfriend doesn’t like me, he doesn’t even say hi if I’m in my boyfriends apartment, when he comes over. He actually completely ignores my all the time. I can say hi or goodbye and he completely acts if I’m not there. Even sitting next to each other in the same car he can just talk over me and only to my boyfriend. It has come to the point where I don’t want him to come by my boyfriends apartment if I’m there. I feel so disrespected and disregarded, that now when my boyfriend hangs with him, I almost get mad and annoyed, because I don’t understand how, he can let his bestfriend, treat me like that. He says, he has said some to him but nothing has changed and he says he can do anymore, because he has brought it up with him. Am I valid in my feelings or how can I feel better about this? Has anyone tried anything similar?