My moms narcissistic ex
I know this man isn’t my spouse but he’s ruining my moms life. For context I’m 19f and have an older brother 21m that lives with me and my mom 50f.
Six ish years ago my father died and in the chaos of that my mom looked for comfort from a man “N” 53m. Since then it’s become clear to everyone around us he’s a narcissist. My mom is chronically ill and we are poor. We aren’t able to pick everything up and leave. I’m wondering if there’s a way to make a narcissist want to leave? I think if we make the house as unappealing as possible he might leave if my mom also stops reacting to him. My mom has a big kind heart and has gotten him to leave before but the last time she let him back because he has a hernia that she couldn’t stand by and watch him kill himself over so she let him stay one night to go to a dr appointment the next day. He has not left since then. Please let me know if you need more clarification on anything. I don’t want my mom to die with him in her life.
My mom thinks he’s staying because we have a largeyard that he can use as he pleases even if told not to. I’m thinking if we take up the space so it’s unusable it might help.