Hello! I live in the states and will be 37yo soon. Ive only just started the journey of SMBC by admitting that I desire motherhood. This week I'm making an appt with a provider to do a workup.
I'm a LPN earning less than $50,000/year. I have very little saved. I plan to move back to my home state early next year to be closer to friends and family. Personally, my pivot in the journey is with IVF and egg freezing. I would rather pivot if it comes to that due to costs and the emotional burden of it all that I don't feel personally equipped for. So, donor sperm and perhaps IUI.
Is it true that one is never financially ready for a kiddo? I feel sad and heartbroken that it feels like a valid enough reason not to pursue motherhood. It also feels unfair or maybe not a worthy excuse to not try and go after motherhood like I so desire. Thoughts? Encouragements?