u/Hot_Inflation_2787

I am happy to report that I did NOT accept my avoidants “contract”. lol to make the story short, I broke things off because I approached him with the “what are we question“ and, of course he gave me all the same statements “I don’t have the emotional capacity. I can’t give you what I want. this is just casual”. Since I said, okay, take your independence with you then I’m ending whatever we are… he proposed.. and in his words “casual, but exclusive, but don’t get your hopes up this will ever become a relationship“. Go figure.