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I F18 had to contact my ex M24 (yes the age is INSANE , met him when I was 16 and got groomed) because I have a bunch of his clothes that I needed to send back to him because we were long distance, it was very surface level conversation I was being civil to him because I’ve gotten to the point now where I’m very happy in my life and I don’t feel any hatred there anymore, it then started to get into talking about our relationship and stuff which I didn’t want to talk about so I proceeded to shut it down and just make him aware that the only reason I am contacting him is to organise sending his things back and nothing more. He was putting on this whole nice guy act the whole time and it was so cringe, luckily now I can see right through him and his manipulation but when we were dating I developed depression and @norexia, I am now recovered and the happiest I have been in years, I’ve gotten an amazing group of friends , so much things planned for next year and it’s been the best year of my life but when we were together it was very different. I isolated myself from everyone and he was the only thing I had and sending that message to me was absolutely crazy, he stalks all my pages so he obviously knows I’m doing well and I am happy and seeing that message and how obvious his manipulation was has actually blown my mind. I was 16-17 years old when we were dating and I was a very vulnerable girl who struggled a lot with mental health issues so I was so naive to it but now i can’t believe I ever fell for that, crazy.