u/Hot_Necessary_9659

How do you get over limiting beliefs?

Last year I started dating someone, at first the relationship was working out well, we connected deeply, however deep down I always had a feeling this man will have a hard time to profess his love towards me.

After 7 months of dating I couldn’t take it anymore and told him that I loved him. He froze. He couldn’t say it back, but told me he adored me, cared about me, had affection and attraction towards me etc…

3 months later the relationship fell because I held resentment towards him for not confessing his love, the thing is throughout this relationship I had abandonment issues, I always felt he will end things and leave me, which he did.

Nowadays (6 months later), looking back I feel like I was manifesting this all along, him not loving me and ending the relationship.

The thing is I still want him back, however I don’t know where to start from, I still have these negative thoughts that he will not take me back and love me as much as I want, how can I rewire this?

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u/Hot_Necessary_9659 — 8 days ago