u/Hot_Spot4970

My elder sister(3 year difference btw) calls me stupid, pagal and things when we're fighting and when I literally say the same thing to her she gets royally offended. Like she'll will be upset with me for hours/days if I don't beg for her attention and make up. I stopped doing that a fre months ago. And she now blames me for "straining" our relationship. Her reason is that just because she's "elder" she should be able to disrespect me without hearing it herself. And I am the youngest, so basically she wants a free pass to call me stuff.

If I call her pagal right after she calls me, does that make me wrong?