Can we all just be normal about fat chicks?
Apologize ahead of time for a male-centered rant on women's bodies
Yeah, I'm an aesthetically challenged young man who's local demographics tend to include a lot of bigger girls. If you know anything about aesthetically challenged young men you know we don't get the same dating opportunities as others.
I'm not a chubby chaser. Maybe I do prefer a girl I could hold without throwing out my back but good lord it's not the fucking end of the world if a girl's got a little bit of tummy. I bring this up because it's really been pissing me off how much self confidence you require to date a fat girl and actually treat her like a human being (i.e. actually posting her on social media and walking around in public next to her). Self confidence I (and I assume many others in my situation) completely lack.
Literally EVERYONE is fatphobic. My family especially. I know nobody's gonna say shit to my face but the constant sneers, snide comments and unsolicited "health" tips would be completely unbearable and I wouldn't subject anyone to that let alone a girl who likely has self esteem issues of her own. I shouldn't have to cut off practically my entire goddamn social web. I would hate it if someone had to do that for me.
All the fucking time I hear shit about fat girls about how it's so horrific that some people might be shaped different. Diet this, lose weight this, all my fucking childhood half the shit that came out of my mom's mouth was about not being fat and how gross her natural body fat was. I know for a fact there's so many sad lonely miserable dudes out there who'd be plenty happy with a fat chick but are bullied away from it. I look like a fucking night terror, I should not be expected to pull jessica rabbit. I should be able to date who I want without having to be some brave hero.
Shit, maybe it's all in my head, maybe nobody actually gives a shit, but I refuse to accept I'm the only person who thinks like this.