Is it too soon to record sexual videos (for personal viewing) after about 1 month of dating?
Throaway for obvious reasons.
I (23F) met my boyfriend (26M) on a dating app. We talked romantically (non-sexually) for about two weeks, and we've been officially dating for 3-4 weeks now. He's incredibly sweet, always respects my boundaries, and checks in constantly.
He knows I had limited autonomy for most of my life due to being in a conservative environment and that he's basically the first guy I've done any sexual stuff with (making out, oral sex, etc.). I've never personally felt the need to go slow, though he's always said he would if I wanted. We haven't had penetrative sex yet because I'm a bit paranoid about its risk (even with protection) so I'm not mentally ready yet he's never pressured me at all. We've done other sexual things, including rough play that I genuinely enjoy and have enthusiastically consented to. He always asks if I'm okay and reads my body language pretty well.
The last time we were intimate, he recorded a video where my face and body are clearly visible. He asked me multiple times if I was sure it was fine before doing so and emphasized that he wanted me to feel safe. In the moment, I thought it was really hot, and felt the same way later too, but now I'm feeling a bit off about it. I don't really regret it, but I keep wondering if I've been doing too much too soon even though I've been enjoying everything.
I trust him a lot. He is incredibly thoughtful, puts in a lot of effort romantically, has progressive views, seems very respectful, and I genuinely don't think he'd ever share it or use it against me. My main worry is it accidentally getting discovered somehow. But at the same time, I know with AI/deepfakes being so common now, it could be easy for me to deny that it actually is real if the worst case scenario happens.
Is one month (about 5-6 weeks of knowing each other) too soon for something like this, even if you really trust the person? Have people done this early and been fine, or do most people regret it later? I feel like my limited experience and excitement might be making me overlook red flags, even though I don't see any. Any honest advice or similar experiences would help. Thank you!