Wife lied about her past triggered rj
Hi I am hoping someone has had a similar experience and can help. When I started dating my present wife she started telling me she had one previous sexual experience. She is from a province and from a sheltered environment as far as sex is concerned and had little attention from men. She moved to a city in her early twenties. She met a guy on Facebook he told her she was beautifull etc and she was deeply flattered she had low self esteem and did not think much of herself. After 1 month of chatting online they met and had sex. I don't know the exact story or if they even went out on a date first. I suspect she loved the idea of love and he told her all the right things. Soon after that night she saw him that he was in a relationship with another girl. When my wife caught him he said yes and told her she was actually really ugly etc and blocked her. She did not say how much this hurt her but of course it must have. I meet my wife after we had sex she told me that she bled with only me so I must be her first. I felt kind of flattered. 8 years later we have a son, one night she asked me about my past which I replied and by great mistake I asked her about hers. She started to tell me about it and then I said it's ok you bled with me right. She looked shocked and said no I did not bleed with you I bled the first time. I said what with him and she said yes I did not bled with you. She had completely forgotten what she said before have been broken every since. I love my wife and know I should forget it but I still feel deeply hurt. I know most of this is rj but I feel the last 8 years has been a lie. Has anyone else had a similar experience. I am in rj hell can not sleep, I keep asking questions and my work is being really affected. I am thinking of breaking up because of how it feels I can not sleep and focus on anything else.