Does anyone experience disrespect and lack of boundaries with parents
Yesterday I came to a realisation that in my home the conceit of “respect” and “boundaries”and even “consent” dosent exist,
I wake up in the morning went to take a bath for work next thing I see my closet it’s open and it’s quite evident that’s someone has been going through my clothes and it’s not the first time it has happened, and I know it was, I was so pissed because why would a parent go out of their way to go through someone closet even as minor as it seems without asking
Secondly in that same day , so for context I am doing a remote job and I earn a specific amount of money, yes my parent helped me get the job and I’m grateful, but since they keep mentioning oh you have to do well to keep earning the amount I’m earning even in public when I don’t want people even my siblings to know what I earn, it’s gotten so bad they addressed the job as the x amount of money job, and the thing is I couldn’t care less about money it’s about gaining experience but now I don’t even feel like I want to continue after being humiliating everyone has to know what I earn
Finally I hate when parents go to your closet or if your clothing is not arrange and throw it on the floor like it’s a rag, like you could have just told me to arrange it or put it in the table , throwing it on the floor is just disrespectful
Sorry for the long paragraph I just feel like I have to rant