Co*rced into physical relationships?
I am searching for the spouse in a non traditional manner where I am not looking for typical arrange setup neither looking for proper relationships, this struggle of staying in between of love and arrange marriage made me interact with several specimen of men and left me with doubts, shock and disgust.
Got matched with a guy on Muzz (yeah I know but I tried) guy looked decent enough, educated, equal social standing, and religiously inclined too. We started talking and the confessions he made were ridiculous. I don't know if its my empathy that let people open up that much or my bad luck because its making me feel as an odd one out.
Guy was trying to tell me how he always looked for respectable woman like me, who doesn't believe in relationships and is 'untouched by filth'. He kept confessing how he has been involved with several women but it was not a physical relationship just ma**out, B*s, fin**ring, se*ting. But he was bold enough to shift the blame.
Women throw themselves at me, and by the end of same conversation guy said
'hum larkay kaafi ha**mi hotay hain, hamay pata hay larki ko kese turn on karna hay, let her throw herself at you and its not on you, its on her'
It disgusted me to the core, and ofcourse guy was blocked, but at the end of market research my mind just came up with the question
Girls who dated, or were in any form of relationships, do you think that your guy was the one actually suggesting it, he coerced you but you were the one making first move?
I just want to remind you girls, its not worth it, first these (insert gaali) will seduce you, coerce you and once you give up he is going to go around talk shit how all women are whore and he needs a pure wife for him, the audacity of such men calling themselves as religious.
Search for a good partner seems like a lost cause 🫤 This process is making me lose faith now.